Planning a funeral

When it comes to planning a funeral, numerous aspects demand attention, ranging from coordinating funeral transportation to selecting music and readings for the service.

This guide is designed to lead you through the process of arranging a funeral service, ensuring that it pays a heartfelt tribute to your loved one in a manner that truly reflects their essence.

Planning a funeral services

Funeral planning is an integral element of the funeral process, as it enables the creation of a personalized and distinctive farewell. With numerous details to take into account, such as coordinating funeral transportation, selecting a suitable coffin, and choosing music and readings for the service, this article is intended to provide you with guidance through the process of planning a meaningful funeral service.

Things you need to do when planning a funeral service

  • Choose the type of funeral, burial, or cremation
  • Pick a venue and date: place of worship, private home, or hall
  • Decide the type of service based on tradition: religious minister, non-religious minister, humanist, funeral director, friend, or relative
  • Choose the type of coffin, casket, or urn
  • Include music and readings
  • Creation of the order of service
  • Consider flowers or charitable donations
  • Arrange funeral transport
  • Write an obituary
  • Organize a wake

Whether you are in the process of arranging a funeral for a loved one or contemplating pre-planning your own funeral, exercising patience when making significant decisions is essential. Our Funeral Directors are here to alleviate the stress associated with funeral planning, ensuring that the farewell for your loved one is a distinctive and heartfelt celebration of their life.

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Our Commitment

  • Personalised attention and holistic approach, taking care of every detail of arrangement from start to finish.
  • On the day of the funeral, your funeral director will be in attendance throughout proceedings to ensure the smooth running of the day.
  • We confirm all funeral arrangements in writing for your review and authorization.
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Planning ahead of time

When preparing for a funeral, it’s important to ascertain whether your loved one had a pre-paid funeral plan in place. Such a plan can help defray the expenses of the funeral service and offer insights into their final wishes

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Type of service

Consider the kind of service you desire, whether it involves burial or cremation, or if it aligns with your religious or non-religious preferences.

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Choosing a venue & date

Selecting a suitable date and venue for the ceremony and the wake, one that accommodates the needs and preferences of attendees and the type of funeral service you desire, is of significance. Our funeral director can provide valuable assistance in planning the service.

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Religious or non-religious funeral

If you opt for a religious funeral service, our funeral directors are well-equipped and highly experienced in conducting a wide array of religious funeral traditions. If your loved one didn’t hold any religious beliefs, we can accommodate a humanist or non-religious funeral. You have the flexibility to select the type of service that aligns with your preferences.

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Type of coffin

Selecting the appropriate coffin for your loved one stands as one of the most crucial decisions in the funeral planning process. When opting for a burial service, you may have the option to include personal items in the coffin or casket, which is a factor worth considering as we arrange the service.

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Music & readings

Playing a beloved piece of music at the funeral or selecting a well-loved funeral poem to be recited by a close friend or family member. If the deceased had religious affiliations, you might also contemplate including popular funeral hymns or Bible readings.

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Order of service

You may like to provide a funeral order of service booklet. You have the flexibility to customise the order of service to align with your and your family’s preferences, ensuring a truly distinctive celebration of your loved one’s life.

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Flowers or charitable donations

Many individuals opt for flowers and floral tributes as a way to pay homage to a cherished individual. You might also consider designating an organisation or charity to which people can make donations in lieu of flowers.

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Funeral Transport

The hearse will transport the casket to the funeral service, often accompanied by limousines carrying family and close friends. For those who want to make the final journey of their loved one more personalised, selecting a hearse or an alternative mode of transport can be a poignant tribute.

Supporting you along the way

We recognise that the funeral planning process can be overwhelming. If you require assistance with arranging your loved one’s funeral, our team of experienced funeral experts is here to provide you with all the assistance and support you may require.

The day of the funeral

This guide will provide insights into the various components of a funeral, covering the funeral procession, the funeral service, the committal service, and the wake. Rest assured, Lasting Love Funerals will be by your side to assist you at each stage of this journey.

Helpful organisations

Often, we do not remember everything at this difficult time. Fortunately, there are organisations ready and willing to offer practical help sympathetic counselling and companionship to support you through this difficult time.

What to do when someone dies

It is completely natural to be uncertain about the necessary steps to take after the passing of a loved one. Our step-by-step guide is designed to delicately explain the essential procedures to follow when someone passes away, guiding you through each phase of the process.

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